Love is a messy thing
A fleeting resemblance to heart shaped cards
or lace veils on wedding days
Love is like hope- a thing with feathers
But more like granite- weathering sun and storms
Love is a messy thing
As I soothe my child after a screeching tantrum in the grocery store
As I pet my dog after he chewed my slipper and threw up on my favorite rug
As I hug my mate after hurtful words flung in a moment of anger
As I forgive my friend who forgets to call
As I care for my parent who has never shown affection.
As I try to find patience with those whose opinions I do not share
Love is a messy thing
As I learn to accept and love myself with all my foibles
As I weather the waves of hurt, frustration, and anger
As I try to transform it into understanding, compassion, and determination
As I go on to love another day.